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Women are Taught To Love Men are Taught to Be Strong

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Maddy Himmelwright (4 days ago)
Just discovered your channel and loving it. Hope you do another live vid soon. XO
49jubilee (6 days ago)
That's inborn.. Men are taught to build and explore..black men, are also men. I think, somewhere, something got hijacked, which sent many into sports only, and RAP
Taneka Sharperson (8 days ago)
👑🖤
Tim Robinson (11 days ago)
Lol so if you had a son how will you teach him lol
Kate Goddard (11 days ago)
I literally feel like I'm being saved with each video. Thank you beautiful <3 P.S. I also love that you troll your trolls :D
Bad Puppy (11 days ago)
I don’t see men being taught to seek multiple women at all. Maybe it’s an age thing, or a culture thing but I was never encouraged to be that way. I was always encouraged to respect those that earn respect, not to chase pretty and look for character. Granted my primary male role model was my ww2 grandfather. Most men I know don’t screw around. That’s why I watch this in horror. I thank God I’ll never have to date you. Don’t get me wrong, no woman should be with a directionless broakass, and I have no issues with men providing and protecting women. My wife and I have traditional roles. I work, she cooks and cleans... we are both happy. But I must say, you come across as one hell of a red flag, for gold digger.
Angel Heart (15 days ago)
You have helped me more than anyone i know!
Zolina Hernandez (20 days ago)
Women need to get they tubes ride you said no they should believe in condoms our birth control our get the depho shot
Thea R (21 days ago)
Lmao the tacos in the bag part 😂
LaLa R (21 days ago)
Good one! You always make me feel better :)
La Lopez (24 days ago)
Mmhmm 20:30 love it, and appreciate it
La Lopez (24 days ago)
16:41 mmhmm
stupid lady (27 days ago)
And guess how your man feels when he's able to take good care of his family and doesn't want his wife to work? He feels like a MAN. The women in your town gonna ask "where you work?", Like they don't already know..lol. What they gonna say when I ask, "Why do you work?"
Casey Lennings (28 days ago)
I need help and advice off a female. I’m a 20 year old guy who is considered very attractive but my luck with girls is so bad it hurts. I constantly find myself getting walked over by girls all the time and I don’t understand what I do wrong? I treat women with respect, love and care and my friends who treat girls like shit have them falling at their feet! I don’t want to pretend I’m someone I’m not just to get a girls attention and I couldn’t disrespect a girl like my friends do. My mates all joke with me telling me I’m too soft and that I apparently fall in love with every girl I sleep with which I can see why they see this because I become infatuated with them every time. Could this be it? I think I’m too soft with them and it kind of puts them off because it seems weird when I’ve just met them but all I’m trying to do is be caring and treat them with respect! I slept with a girl after a night out the other week and I thought we had chemistry but then the day after I didn’t receive anything which showed interest in me and she was liking my friends picture online (isn’t very attractive either). He was with me that night as well so it came across like she was more interested in him the entire time? Someone please help I’m sick of getting let down by girls
T South (29 days ago)
So much wisdom. I just realized one of my co-workers is a pickme due to naïveté and barely being 20. I needed to come back to this oasis of wisdom. It’s like oxygen.
You are the mother I never had
Kobae Gallery (1 month ago)
I’m a man that love & care for my woman. Your insights are appreciated. Thank you SheRaSeven.
Nadiya Karalash (1 month ago)
WHERE does your wisdom come from? You don’t cease to surprise me the more you talk.
Connie Willis (1 month ago)
You come off as TRUTH!
Ashley E. (1 month ago)
I am the socket and not the plug! #Message
Lula Belle (1 month ago)
Thank you Shera...I'm a better and smarter woman because of your messages on all your channels.
Denise Jones (1 month ago)
Sister Shera, you preached this message. Thank you so much for what you do!!!!
Soph Alexandria (1 month ago)
whats wrong with that?
Candy Kane (1 month ago)
The age you settled down mattered more in the old days. Not these days. These days. People are settling down and giving birth much later
Jocelynn Catasus (1 month ago)
I always say girls and boys are raised at crossed purposes. Yaaasss Shera preach lol
Jocelynn Catasus (1 month ago)
"Y'all are helping PickMe's by hitting the like button" lmaoooooo love your channels and I will continue to hit the like button 😂😂😂💖💖💖💁🏽💁🏽💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
WJ Art (1 month ago)
Guys don't have to compete for girls today, every time I walk into a club/bar or im in class or at work, there are always more girls than guys. especially if youre a guy girls consider a catch
WJ Art (29 days ago)
maybe you only see women financially supporting men, but I see men financially support women all the time, even when we're little kids the guy is the one who takes the girl out usually.even SheRaSeven1 is advocating that women should be dependent on the boyfriend she's with at the time+T South
T South (29 days ago)
WJ Art working class men leach off of their women because they just work and plop on the couch and the women gotta be their mamma, their kids mama, cook, maid, and then he’ll ask her to help him with the yard. She’s the main one leaving work when the kids are sick. Not the same thing at all.
WJ Art (29 days ago)
duhh, thats the same for men. of course people are happier when they don't have another person leeching off them.+T South
T South (29 days ago)
WJ Art and further more, you have your standards in women, women have each of our own standards. We’re not going to suddenly jump on a dude because there are few dudes. Listen to what Ashera said. Reality being is that most women, especially working class women are actually freer and happier without mates who are capped at a lower lifestyle. There have been studies done on this. Even women with kids who don’t have much would rather work harder and pour it into their kids than into a man who is not a provider.
T South (29 days ago)
WJ Art I already have friends and relationships. I make my own luck. Thanks though.
BeautifullAma (1 month ago)
You're dropping facts Shera.
LOVE JOY (1 month ago)
💫Golden Information☄
J.R. Maverick (1 month ago)
This is medicine (like that old-fashioned castor oil purge). Keep preaching!!
Money Chapman (1 month ago)
At 48:00 this was #freegame but it probably went over their heads. FACTS 👏🏿🙌🏿💯❤️
Martha Divine (1 month ago)
Women need to use their logic frist and fall in love second. Love has gotten a lot of women broken hearted with nothing struggling with children.
Kstixx1 (1 month ago)
pick-me are mostly taught to live and think in a fairytale, idealized way or tend to not be smart at all “Gold diggers” think and live more in reality but they are also capable of loving Most men live in reality even dusties, that’s why they take their broke a** to Brazil / Thailand I’d be okay with my daughter being into fairytale up until 16 just like they are supposed to grow out of Santa clause.
Janessa N (1 month ago)
I’m loving this video more and more by the second....🙌🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Maritza Guaderrama (1 month ago)
Hey! Looking good!
Champagne Gold (1 month ago)
You have definitely helped me. My only regret is not finding out about you years ago.
Ms Queenlyminded (1 month ago)
Me too
Monique *fts (1 month ago)
I appreciate your message so much as a woman.
Music4TheSoul (1 month ago)
I see a bunch of broke dusties here.
Music4TheSoul (1 month ago)
You are so right. Men don’t love like women. Men usually show love through their actions, not emotion. Women have been brainwashed by these TV shows showing men falling in love like women when that’s not reality. We as women need to start being strategic and stop going by emotions all the time because it’s not going to give you the results that you want.
Natasha Seer (1 month ago)
Shera you should start reviewing the Divorce court and Before Your Vows series (Judge Toler)....those situations are a mess, just as real life examples of how these men think!!!!
ThatVerySpecialGirl (1 month ago)
Shera I’m a 23 yo woman and all the women in my life are weak minded pick mes (even my mother whose been through many relationship with dusties has not learned a thing when it comes to men) I am so thankful to have a woman life you in my life to teach me these life lessons, you are my Oprah when it comes to relationship with men! I’m absorbing your teachings like a sponge so that I get married to a respectable high value man once I’m done with university. 💕
TheOnlyNorma (1 month ago)
Eighteen thousand million 😍
Wolves Den2018inc (1 month ago)
This is truly sad ! Yall women really think this a solution to teach innocent lil girls to use lil boys for his money or what he can do for u ! Lol wow this why yall hoes single and hurt ! And u said even if he got one motives the woman gonna outrule the benifits ! Must be talking about a marriage ? trust me us men learned that over last 20 years of getting marriaged fucked and left broke ! But it a new age All fathers uncles even popular dating couches teach men not too marry ! So u gotta make it too ring to get any benifits at all while u trying get ring and teach these women how fake like have sex and just try make the male give yall a ring the male gonna be already winning and 9/10 of he even a ouch of playa know that u only want his money and nut on ya face and block your number now u looking for the next victim !
Wolves Den2018inc (1 month ago)
+MukbangPrincess I can see it from your point but I clearly seen plenty vids where this dam woman said use him and always have the advantage ! But black sister u gotta switch up the men u searching for it lot hard working men they just don't look on no pretty boy shit it usually be ugly to y'all so y'all ignore them and expect the decent looking ones who been getting pussy thrown at em all his life too take on a full man role when that wasn't a requirement when u dated or before u fucked em. ! Move to southern States we lot more hard working here
MukbangPrincess (1 month ago)
But these men nowadays are so feminine , they don't wanna work as hard as men used to ..
MukbangPrincess (1 month ago)
She's not teaching to use men. She's teaching to find a man that better suits a happy comfortable lifestyle for a women and her child. That's why there are so many broke single women because we chose the wrong guys. That's why so many women have welfare because the father is too poor to contribute. Why would you want that for your child? The man is wired to provide and protect his family.
Wolves Den2018inc (1 month ago)
And won't ever take care u filthy peasants that listen to this fuck shit that come out this bitches mouffffff
Wolves Den2018inc (1 month ago)
Lol saltyyyyy much. And sure pal dusty asf counting these dusty ass hunnn dunnsss
Maryam Ali (1 month ago)
Love your suggestions.So on point on target. Needed this information for my son's and daughter's. Totally good to know.
Eve Barr (1 month ago)
Haha she said reruns of the walking dead lmao
MukbangPrincess (1 month ago)
There is a difference between depending on a man and having a man provide for you
Indira-Cleide Salvador (1 month ago)
Right shera the fairytale stuff is for the birds. We gotta keep them at bay. It’s very true.
diego kjaria (1 month ago)
No one should be taught to love. Choose marriages that makes sense. What if you teach men to love and then they fall in love with someone else and leave their family? It's stupid. Marriage isnt about love. Marriage is at the base of society and it's there for stability not for fleeting feelings.
Pony Haly (1 month ago)
“Love yourself, and teach men how to love you.” THIS IS SO TRUE. I learned it a hard way. I thought we should treat other people the way we want to be treated, but it’s actually “treat yourself the way you want to be treated.”
Pony Haly (1 month ago)
Thanks Shera♥️ I’ve learned so many things from you.
iahmesu (1 month ago)
wrong, women are taught to just exist - - men are taught to love and be gentle and be kind and be caring and pay the bills and to open the door for her and to give up your seat for her and to just, to. women are taught that they have the right to those things.
T South (29 days ago)
iahmesu lol tell that to the mothers who work full time and are the main care taker of kids even while married. They are the ones who remember everybody’s bday plan events for the family and do the gift shopping and errand running grocery shopping cooking main one focused on cleaning and laundry. Please... men don’t know the half of it.
Simone Love (1 month ago)
Those car warranty people need to be banned seriously! They call 10 times a day where it fucks up your personal life an that’s not cool! Blocked over 50numbers an they still get threw with being blocked! I miss important calls because I’m afraid to answer my own phone because of it😡
Donita Dennis (1 month ago)
This video is awesome!💝
Nita Gordon (1 month ago)
You are so right Shera... absolutely love your messages/advice, thank you❤️
MukbangPrincess (1 month ago)
L le
Ha Lar (1 month ago)
Bonetta 🤣 I can't!
Donita Dennis (1 month ago)
Some of your videos help me so much!! I thank God for you!! This video is as Some!!💝
Alicia Williams` (1 month ago)
Men make things so complicated and it's not even that serious.Men should just handle their business and allow women to be who they are.
Crystal Lewis-Gonzales (1 month ago)
in the old days men never loved, men falling in love was shown on television in the old days to brain wash women
Aisha Prince (9 days ago)
Crystal Lewis-Gonzales what do you mean by they never loved? Did they just pick the hottest chick
Kianna (1 month ago)
Really made yourself look really nice in this one.
Carlton Peart (1 month ago)
SheRa would say that Mary Boleyn was a pick me chick..... But in truth Anne was the other Boleyn Girl
Carlton Peart (1 month ago)
But he will never see you as anything more than recreation. Men of means, many times will have a recreation budget (maybe 10% of their monthly earnings) So it matters little how they spend it but make no mistake, you going have to come up outta them draws by the 3rd date. If not you going get ghosted and the few meals you got will be neither here nor there to him
Sakeenah Aleem (27 days ago)
Carlton Peart I’ve had men of means ghost me because I didn’t give it up on the third date. Only to reach back out a month or two later. When you hold to your standards, and don’t operate on some silly dating rules, you maintain your dignity in the process. And they will return.
Jenna Love (1 month ago)
You’re such an inspiration shera! You look so slim here btw 😍
Carlton Peart (1 month ago)
SheRa correctly advised you should use her techniques on men of means. What they spend on you, no matter how much it seems to you will be small to them, consequently they won't have a big reaction when you show your true colors. Men of means will have you pegged from the gate.
Belle Noire (1 month ago)
+xmas trees YOUR TYPE OF MAN ARE NOT THE TARGET!!!!
Azza Naza (1 month ago)
Carlton Peart you have a lot to say but it’s all wrong. U clearly a dusty dude. Why are u even on this channel tho?
Carlton Peart (1 month ago)
All you women following this teaching, will end up like Anne Boleyn. The weakest of men fall for these techniques. And when it slowly dawns on them how much they have been lied to and manipulated. A violent reaction will not come as a surprise.
T South (29 days ago)
Legend you’re going to lay hands on us? Yeah I can tell where you are from and you wouldn’t catch me there...
T South (29 days ago)
Legend lol clearly you don’t have that much going on to be on this channel. Belle Noire is right. Anne Brolyn was the scape goat for his consistently “failing” boy sperm and inability to be faithful. Scientific ignorance was the way back then.
T South (29 days ago)
Belle Noire thank you! Someone who sees more than what the bs white washed books teach
Belle Noire (1 month ago)
+Legendary "Dat" I rest my case #NOTTHE TARGET
Belle Noire (1 month ago)
@Carlton Peart you have spoken like a true narcissist with zero self-esteem and masculinity who has to resort to violence against a physically weaker woman to assert his NON EXISTANT masculinity and self-worth. AND FOR THE record Anne Boleyn was executed because she could not produce a son and heir even though that was due to Henry's deficient sperm so please get your facts straight! He murdered most of his wives including the ones that were faithful to him because of his LUST which is the oldest story in the book when it comes to men and is a perfect example of why you should choose wisely and avoid low-grade sperm donors...like yourself.
Slavik Princess (1 month ago)
I tolerate ZERO disrespect. Period. I am officially raising the bar as high as possible.
Rita (1 month ago)
Shera came to preach today
Neey Hime (1 month ago)
Does anyone know what Shera's ringtone is called? I'm still dying from when she played it in the serial dater video😂😂❤️
Donna Scagliarini (1 month ago)
Good video sheRa 🌺
Stop and Smell Peonies (1 month ago)
😂😂😂😂😂😂 you gotta live at sharkeeshas house 😂😂😂😩😩😩
Alicia Williams` (1 month ago)
Stop and Smell Peonies it even looks funny spelled out as well 😂😂
Razz Razz (1 month ago)
And does no one find it funny? That men don’t even realize what they want the MOST is connection, true intimacy, and love? But they have been TAUGHT that sex is love, that sex is connection, and sex is intimacy. They don’t even realize what they are so obsessed about and constantly in the pursuit of actually is. Smh, it’s truly sad....but too late, we woman got hip to the game and rather have that money now smh they come crying about love as soon as we want something that is REAL
Diane Brennan (1 month ago)
This woman is smart!!!
I live that lifestyle and it’s true everything she says. I have no respect a man who is not provider I friend zoned them and married the one. Looking back all of them are still garbage no success or future. Imagine having their children 🤮
boldandcourageous 41 (1 month ago)
4.1 k views in 3 hours okay 🙆‍♂️! SheRa your doing it dang! I liked the video as i always do. That ring tone !😂😂😂
Ms Queenlyminded (1 month ago)
😘😘😘😘😘😘❤❤❤❤💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💙💙 Yasss Sis come thru with the mesage
Scorpio Life (1 month ago)
Shera do people ever ask you if you knit?
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
BITTER WOMEN UP IN HERE LOL
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Holly Martinez 💕
Holly Martinez (1 month ago)
+GERMAN SANCHEZ youre probably right about a convo. Oh well 💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗💚💗
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Holly Martinez ALGO DE LO QUE COMENTÉ TE HACE CONSIDERAR. YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR THIS TODAY. SO DO I. IT'S NOT NEGATIVITY BUT I DOUBT WE COULD HAVE A DECENT CONVERSATION. EL REY SIEMPRE SERÁ REY. BITTER WOMEN NO GOOD.
Holly Martinez (1 month ago)
+GERMAN SANCHEZ so you post on here to spread negativity? It sounds like your problem might be worse than women thinking about what's best for themselves. You should probably get a limpia for all that hate veneno
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Holly Martinez I'M HERE TO ENJOY THE FOOLISHNESS. HAD A FEW EXTRA MINUTES TODAY. THANKS FOR CONSIDERING MY COMMENT.
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
NOTHING BUT EMOTIONAL NONSENSE UP IN HERE IT'S ENTERTAINING LOL
julie otieno (1 month ago)
How about you fuck off then
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Yes I BET YOU'RE BITTER, BITTERY. LOL
Yes (1 month ago)
I bet you're broke. Brokey.
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Twoworlds SO WHY CONSIDER RESPONDING? LOL NONSENSE.
Twoworlds (1 month ago)
You're entertaining us by being here trying to learn how to get through to you.
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
VERY ILLOGICAL KNOWLEDGE. SMH... WOMEN. LOL
GERMAN SANCHEZ (1 month ago)
Suuralayda sanka siman Faransawi garbsaar THAT'S EXACTLY WHERE YOUR DOWNFALL IS. IT'S ILLOGICAL REASONING IN WOMEN BUT YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND.
GERMAN SANCHEZ I live that lifestyle and it’s true everything she says. I have no respect a man who is not provider I friend zoned them and married the one. Looking back all of them are still garbage no success or future. Imagine having their children 🤮
Diamond Dime (1 month ago)
Sighhhh..., calm and collective Shera 😩😘 There’s a time and place to yell and be super extra.
Mrs. Vixen Sanders (1 month ago)
If he can afford to untie my tubes then we can discuss children.
Honey BAE (27 days ago)
referral madness Definitely! 💰💰💰
referral madness (27 days ago)
Honey BAE Teach your daughter how to be a gold digger lol
Honey BAE (28 days ago)
Mrs. Vixen Sanders Damn, you got a smart momma. I gotta save this gem for my future daughter! 🖤
Nisha Mack (1 month ago)
My Brother did for his wife. They got twins ,and he could afford it.
Mrs. Vixen Sanders (1 month ago)
+Legendary I did...if he's not financially stable to really start a family by ivf or reversing my tubal WITHOUT health coverage then he's not getting a child out of me. My Mom taught me that.
LadyJay (1 month ago)
Get em Shera! I am the socket not the plug babbyy! lol
LadyJay (1 month ago)
Belle Noire well said. Some men are lazy and don’t want to reach their full potential to support a family properly. They are looking for excuses and a cheap way out.
Belle Noire (1 month ago)
​+Legendary​ a woman's standards are none of your business unless you are interested. Any woman who knows her worth has every right to save herself for the best prospect who can invest. A "whore" as you call it ( a term used to control a woman's sexuality) would not have any standards or would sleep with whoever shows her interest. A gold digger sleeps with a man just for money. WE are looking for our best options for a LIFE PARTNER to support us and any future kids and that is our birthright! Just like you men value looks above ALL else so please keep your hypocrisy and double standards to yourself. Your type is not the target.
LadyJay (1 month ago)
Legendary which is why you are not husband material.
L G (1 month ago)
On the second date he tells me his BFF is a woman and that they laugh at how uncomfortable the people they date become over them. He says sometimes they go out and he pays or she’ll pay. I don’t pay anything and I prefer to be my mans best friend. I know he isn’t my man. The old me would’ve tried to compete with his bff for the bff title. Instead I told him about how my male coworker always gets friendly with me but since I didn’t want to lead him on I’ve held back. But now seeing how well his opposite sex bff relationship works so well I think I’ll embrace a friendship with him 😊. His nostrils flared 😂😂😂😂.
Kate Goddard (11 days ago)
All the way love that last line! :D
Lady Underwood (29 days ago)
The fact that he has to announce his female best friend on a date shows hes just insecure and trying to make potential partners jealous, that makes him feel more special. Next anyone like acting like that. Very petty.
Khai The Conqueror (1 month ago)
That's how you do it! 👏👏👏
Belle Noire (1 month ago)
+L G That's my girl-nice job!!
L G (1 month ago)
Vibes That Heal I’m promise you less than a year ago I would’ve been chasing this man and fighting to be his bff. I gotta pat myself on the back for growth!! These videos changed my life!! I feel like crying. And do you know he hasn’t called me since the date and I don’t give a flying fuq! I’m not chasing no man!! Don’t care if I never hear from him.
Fatima (1 month ago)
I've been out of the love game and have been my happiest yet...within my relationship, lol.
Kerry (1 month ago)
@SheRaSeven1 goes on and on and onnnnn for hours and hours and hours almost every day. Yet, she STILL has something NEW to teach people each time she does a video. Incredible really. She repeats necessary messages for it to sink in, sometimes just said in a different way.
Kerry (1 month ago)
+Worships Cats You're right, that's a good word to use in this instance, wise. I like that, and I agree.
Kerry (1 month ago)
+Connie T Yes, that's what I'm saying, we definitely do, to reprogram our brains
Connie T (1 month ago)
Sometimes that's what we need in life; to be constantly reminded and told.
Katie Waity (1 month ago)
I love the long videos, and love Shera she’s amazing! So wise and has a sense of humour
Miss Philosophie (1 month ago)
I love the long vids❤️
Jozette Bateman (1 month ago)
Only a strong woman can say what she feels, and not care about the judgment that follows. So true!! Men do it all day!! Lie, cheat, and steal. Wise up, play the game. I have finally found a "diamond in the rough." He's older, and knows my worth. I don't have to question it, because he shows me, through his ACTIONS.
Softfire (1 month ago)
+Legendary I think she meant mentally strong, not physically strong. But yeah it's definitely our job to look cute.
Softfire (1 month ago)
That's awesome..it must feel so great.
CassieAfricanQueen (1 month ago)
Girlllllll u looking like Lisa Raye today 💅💅💅💅💅💅
Locheadbosslady (1 month ago)
Hi beautiful hope your well yes I’m so for the small things

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